On Cheesburgers, love and loving cheeseburgers

Hmm… I am not sure that I would agree that every relationship can be healthy. Just like knowing cheeseburgers are unhealthy doesn’t make them healthy. Similarly, if a person reacts to me in a negative way too often, I don’t think the secret would be to anticipate their negativity and to “socially engineer” only positive outcomes. That cramps your style after awhile, big time, and does not make things much healthier. I’ve tried that. It might occasionally get you out of some tight spots in the short-term, though. But it is by no means something that could be a long-term solution. And I don’t know of any long-term solution.

Funny, I like “regular” hamburgers (no cheese). I only wish that my awareness of hamburgers being unhealthy would make them healthy. :-)